Becoming Self

Institute Guides

Practitioners of Depth, Timing, and Relational Genius

At Becoming Self: Institute for Human Development, transformation is never a solo endeavor.  It unfolds in relationship – with time, with nature, with story, and with others who walk beside us.  Our Institute Guides are those companions: practitioners who not only understand the Becoming Self, but who embody it in their own unique way.

Each Guide brings a distinct genius to the Institute’s holistic offerings – whether through somatic wisdom, ritual design, narrative healing, ecological insight, or developmental coaching.  They complement the core teachings of The Becoming Framework with their own lived experience, professional expertise, and symbolic fluency.  Together, they form a constellation of support for those seeking soulful, timing-sensitive growth.

Some Guides lead CEU-accredited trainings.  Others facilitate online courses, offer group rituals, provide one-on-one mentorship, or co-create custom programs for individuals, organizations and communities.  Depending on your needs, your journey may be supported by Dr. Jason Geoffrion, founder of Becoming Self, or by an Institute Guide whose background aligns with your field, your timing, and your unfolding.

This is not a static faculty – it’s a living network of practitioners committed to relational integrity, developmental precision, and soulful expansion.  Each Guide is chosen not just for what they know, but for the personal growth they’ve engaged in, and how they hold, listen, and transmit.

Explore the profiles below to meet the Guides, learn about their offerings, and discover who might be the right companions for your next revolution of becoming.

Jason Geoffrion, PhD

Founder & Director Becoming Self Institute, ~ Creator of the Becoming Framework and Life Cycle Sequencing

Dr. Jason Geoffrion is the founder and director of Becoming Self, a guide, psychotherapist, life coach, teacher, and transition specialist with a PhD in human development.  For more than 25 years he has supported questioning youth, adult seekers, and exploring professionals.  His work centers on identity, growth, and transformational experience and is embodied in The Becoming Framework, a holistic model mapping thirteen life cycles from infancy to ethereal presence.  Using the Life Cycle Sequencing process, he turns missed developmental milestones into practices of self-compassion, narrative reclamation, and embodied growth.  Based at his riverside home in Colorado, he creates reflective tools, symbolic exercises, and collaborative communities.  He offers trainings, online courses, workshops, and retreats that integrate developmental theory, ritual, and somatic practice to invite lifelong, living transformation.

Rachael Skolnik Bonaiuto, MA, BC-DMT, LPC

Founder of Embodied Wellness ~ Authentic Movement ~ Akashic Records Consultation ~ Somatic Educator

Rachael Skolnik Bonaiuto is the founder of Embodied Wellness, a Board‑Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor who centers somatic wisdom, creative embodiment, and compassionate clinical skill.  Trained in Somatic Counseling and Authentic Movement, she guides clients to reclaim bodily sovereignty after illness, injury, or systemic harm and translates insight into practical change using dance/movement therapy, somatic attunement, creative intervention and experiential practices.  Rachael offers individual and group therapy, movement‑based workshops, retreats, Authentic Movement teacher preparation, and consultative support for clinicians.  Her work is trauma‑aware, evidence‑informed, and steeped in cross‑cultural and international experience, emphasizing self‑regulation, relational depth, and sustainable wellness.  Based in embodied practice and community collaboration, she cultivates pathways for increased self‑love, creative expression, and lasting behavioral change, and welcomes collaborative projects that bridge therapy, intuition, movement, and somatic education.

Gabriel Cannon, MA

BSI Organizational Consultant ~ Educational Leadership ~ Policy Studies

Gabriel Cannon brings clinical skill, educational leadership, and wilderness facilitation to guide adolescents and adults through embodied transition work.  Trained in Counseling Psychology and Educational Leadership, he has ten years of hands-on systems experience as school counselor, dean of culture, and assistant principal in Denver Public Schools.  He designs and facilitates rites-of-passage programs, somatic mentoring, and school-based curricula that combine trauma-informed assessment, relational safety, and practical skill-building.  Gabriel is a practitioner of ceremonial practice and body-centered modalities as a SomaSource Practitioner and Golden Bridge collaborator.  He delivers outpatient treatment, family and couples therapy, supervision, and mentor coaching, and builds cohort learning environments that scale ethical initiation work.  Based in Colorado, he leverages outdoor programs, group rituals, and creative arts to translate developmental change into everyday action.

Ellen Geoffrion, MA, LPC, R-DMT

Founder of Spring Wind Resourcing ~ Creator of the Spring Wind Method ~ Reiki Master in Training ~ Aroma Psychology Practitioner

Ellen Geoffrion is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Colorado and a Registered Dance / Movement Therapist through the American Dance Therapy Association.  With more than 12 years in clinical practice, she blends somatic counseling, attachment-based work, grief and end-of-life care, and dance / movement therapy to help clients access healing through the body.  Educated with a BA in Dance and Communication Studies, and holding an MA in Somatic Counseling Psychology with a concentration in Dance / Movement Therapy, Ellen’s published thesis explores D/MT’s impact on grieving children.  Her clinical experience includes hospital and hospice internships, leadership and mentorship in group practice, and a private practice shaped by parenting a neurodivergent child.  She specializes in the Spring Wind Resourcing Method, Reiki, Aroma Psychology, and somatic approaches that support children and adults.  Ellen lives beside the Middle St. Vrain River in Lyons, Colorado, and brings grounded presence, creative movement, and deep attunement to every therapeutic relationship.

Jody Gold, MA

Founder of The Way We Can

Jody Gold, founder of The Way We Can, is an MSOD-trained practitioner who elevates teams so they work as effectively together as they can. Drawing on a decade as a middle school teacher and a Master’s in Organizational Development, Jody’s work produces successful, resilient, interdependent teams across tech, energy, healthcare, education, and the nonprofit space.  His work creates a deep shift – from “me” to “we” – in how teams think, decide, and act. Using a research-backed map and practical methodology, Jody helps organizations prevent problems before they arise even as they solve problems and capture emerging opportunities.  Signature offerings include off-site retreats, Art of Alignment™ decision-making, Heart of Belonging groups, and tailored individual and executive team coaching – combining experiential learning, conflict transformation, and smarter decision-making to raise interaction quality and collective intelligence.  Jody’s practical optimism – and his belief that serious work can also be joyful – helps organizations move faster, make better decisions, and build the cultures that work and that last.

John W. McCluskey

John W. McCluskey is a veteran educator, principal, council carrier, and facilitator who has been working to humanize education and leadership since 1989.  For more than three decades he has cultivated learning environments rooted in relationship, belonging, and shared responsibility.  As principal of New Vista High School in Boulder, Colorado, he has helped shape a student‑centered culture where dialogue, authenticity, and community stewardship guide daily practice.  His work is grounded in the belief that young people thrive when they are seen, heard, and invited into meaningful participation, and that schools become transformative when relationships – not compliance – form their core.

Kathryn Holt, PhD, LCSW

Depth Psychology ~ Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy ~ Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy

Kathryn C. Holt is a depth psychotherapist in private practice in Longmont, CO, specializing in body acceptance, soul work, and postpartum support.  She offers a rare synthesis of depth and behavioral psychologies, specifically feminist and psychodynamic psychology, DBT/RO DBT, and experiential movement practices such as Qoya Inspired Movement.  She writes and teaches about bodies, motherhood, and spirituality in psychology.   She studied dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) at Columbia University and completed her PhD in depth psychology with a focus on Jungian and Archetypal Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute.  Grounded in her own journey through bodily disconnection and maternal transformation, she creates an atmosphere of mutual respect and care for our human experiences.  Kathryn teaches, consults, and leads workshops that help clients reclaim bodily authority, deepen attachment, and live with greater ease and meaning.  Dr. Holt is the author of ‘Overcoming Body Hatred Workbook’ and the co-author of the well-received ‘Stronger Than BPD Journal’.

Elizabeth Jameson, MDiv

Spiritual Guide ~ Soul Coach ~ Writer ~ Retreat Leader ~ The Inner Alchemy of Wisdom

Elizabeth Jameson is a midwife of being, a spiritual guide and soul coach whose work weaves together three threads: the wisdom of the mystics, the embodied cosmos and the depth of lived human experience.  A priest, teacher and retreat facilitator for over three decades, she gently accompanies others through thresholds of loss, change and awakening.  Her offerings blend contemplative practice, poetic reflection and soulful community to help people reconnect with their true self and the Love that holds it all.  Her journey through grief, including the death of her beloved child Bee, deepens her capacity to accompany others into healing and joy.  Elizabeth’s presence creates a field where the sacred can be felt and where emergence is honored over fixing.  She trusts that every act of returning to our own “I am” expands the greater “we are” – healing not only ourselves but also the world we touch and the Love that touches us in return.

Dominica Lumazar

Multi-business owner ~ Award-Winning Strategist ~ #1 International Bestselling Author ~

Dominica Lumazar is an award-winning strategist, multi-business owner, and #1 international bestselling author known for blending heart and strategy to build brands that inspire transformation.  From her roots in jazz and creative arts to leading Sweet D Marketing, a Silicon Valley-based agency specializing in growth strategy, brand elevation, and business development, Dominica’s work bridges business intelligence, psychology, and soulful leadership.  Featured in Forbes, CNBC, and Total Prestige Magazine, she empowers others to align who they are with what they build – proving that real success is measured not only in profit, but in purpose, impact, and legacy.

Jackson Maloney, BA

Founder of Standing on the Earth ~ Youth Mentor ~ Rites of Passage Guide

Jackson Maloney is a youth mentor and rites of passage guide based in Boulder, Colorado.  He founded Standing On The Earth in 2023 with the mission to support teenage boys and young men through the threshold of boyhood into adulthood.   He blends wilderness-based initiation and apprenticeship-style mentorship to help guide adolescents towards greater maturation, focusing on emotional awareness and capacity, identification and pursuit of their passions, clear communication skills, ability for insight and self-reflection, and connection with nature and the world around them.  Drawing on his own transformational encounters in nature and ceremony, his creative career as a poet and songwriter, years volunteering with Men’s Leadership Alliance and Twin Eagles Wilderness School, and his own personal struggles as a teenager before he met his own mentors, Jackson offers a space for teens to build trust with somebody outside of their immediate family.  His vision is for a world where all adolescent boys have the support they need to become healthy, thriving, generative, joyful men who are utilizing their gifts in service of something greater than themselves.

Mary Rose, MA, LPC

Founder of Moving Toward Health ~ Paradox Process ~ Vital Mind Reset Coach ~ Holistic Therapist

Mary Rose is a Licensed Professional Counselor, somatic therapist, and Vital Mind Reset coach who blends twenty years of clinical training with a lived recovery from autoimmune illness to help people feel safe in their bodies and reclaim clarity.  Her work reframes symptoms as intelligent signals and pairs somatic therapy, the Paradox Process, parts work, and lifestyle medicine into a 44-day Vital Mind Reset that rewires regulation rather than merely managing pain.  Clients come to Mary Rose when therapy, supplements, and willpower haven’t worked – she offers an embodied, compassionate path that integrates nervous-system practices, nutrition, environmental detox, and measurable experiments.  Grounded, practical, and deeply attuned, she guides people from chronic survival into steady regulation, clearer priorities, and sustainable vitality, inviting clients to listen to their bodies and recover a truer, more confident way of living.

Maren Gauldin, MS

Enneagram Facilitator and Guide ~ Transformational Coach ~ Soul-Centered Organizational Development Consultant ~ Founder Seeds to Wholeness

Maren Gauldin is a transformational coach, consultant, and Enneagram guide with more than twenty years of experience in human and organizational development.  She works at the meeting point of inner awareness and outer leadership, helping individuals, couples, teams, and mission‑driven organizations align who they are with what they create.  Her work centers on human potential, systemic transformation, and the inner architecture that shapes how people and systems function.  Through her practice, Seeds to Wholeness, she integrates organizational development, somatic intelligence, consciousness studies, and the Enneagram to support clients navigating thresholds of growth.  Guided by the belief that every person and every system carries the seeds of its own wholeness, she blends deep inquiry with practical design to turn insight into embodied, sustainable change.  Rooted in a commitment to justice, liberation, and collective becoming, she offers coaching, consulting, facilitation, and transformational programs that invite clarity, courage, and aligned action.

Christi Strickland, MA

Founder of Circle Forth ~ Facilitation Mentoring ~ Collective Transformation

Christi Strickland is the founder of Circle Forth, a facilitator, teacher, and mentor who blends living-systems thinking, nature-based wisdom, and embodied practice in order to foster thriving people and purpose.  For more than two decades she has trained facilitators, led experiential leadership courses, and supported groups across education, health, justice, arts, and community settings.  Her work centers on designing regenerative group life that is collaborative, joyful, and accountable, integrating current theoretical understanding of group development, council, restorative practice, somatic presence, and rites-of-passage.  Using outdoor learning, ritual, and practice-based curriculum, she turns group conflict and fragmentation into opportunities for repair, clarity, and sustained action.  She offers facilitator training, retreats, strategic planning, cohort mentorships, and project facilitation that develop practical facilitation skill, relational capacity, and resilient community systems.  She seeks to ignite a culture of collective wisdom in these times of upheaval and uncertainty. 

Our Invitation

We invite you to step into a space where your development is not judged, but celebrated.  Whether you’re in a season of emergence, integration, or renewal, Becoming Self offers tools and teachings to help you navigate with clarity and compassion.  This is not just a framework – it’s a way of seeing yourself and others with deeper understanding and grace.

Join us in co-creating a community where growth is sacred, timing is trusted, and becoming is honored.  Explore your current Life Cycle, dive into past Life Cycles, contribute your wisdom, and connect with others who are walking their own path of transformation.  

You’re not alone.  You’re not late.  You’re right on time – and we’re so glad you’re here.

Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations

The Invitation
Every life has a rhythm, a hidden architecture that shapes the way we grow, change, and become. You’ve felt it before – the sense that certain moments arrive right on time, while others feel like they’re pulling you forward before you’re ready. Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations is your key to understanding these patterns. It’s not just theory; it’s a living map of your own unfolding.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever wondered why certain challenges keep repeating, or why some seasons of life feel effortless while others feel like uphill climbs, this course will give you the clarity you’ve been craving. You’ll learn to see your life not as a series of random events, but as a purposeful sequence – one that you can navigate with awareness instead of guesswork.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of this course, you’ll have a clear framework for recognizing where you are in your current cycle, what’s coming next, and how to prepare for it. You’ll be able to identify the signs of transition before they arrive, make decisions with greater confidence, and align your actions with the natural flow of your development.

What to Expect
Over several modules, you’ll explore the stages of the life cycle through engaging video lessons, live interactions, reflective exercises, and guided Life Cycle Sequencing activities. You’ll work with real examples from your own life, uncovering patterns you may never have noticed before. You’ll also have access to a supportive online community where you can share insights, learn from others walking their own paths, and find allies on the journey.

The Transformation
This isn’t just about learning a model – it’s about reclaiming your agency. When you understand the timing and structure of your own growth, you stop fighting the current and start moving with it. You’ll leave with a sense of grounded confidence, knowing that you have the tools to meet whatever comes next.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks

The Invitation
Imagine walking through every cycle of human becoming – not as an abstract idea, but as a lived, embodied experience.  Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks is a guided journey through the full arc of development, from the first breath to the wisdom of elderhood.  Each week, you’ll immerse yourself in a new cycle, exploring its gifts, challenges, and lessons.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever felt like you’re living one chapter while still carrying the weight of another, or if you sense that understanding the whole story of human development could unlock your own growth, this course is for you.  It’s for seekers who want to see the bigger picture and your place within it.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of these thirteen weeks, you’ll have a deep, embodied understanding of each life cycle and how they weave together.  You’ll see your own journey with fresh eyes, recognize the cycles you’ve mastered, and identify the ones still calling for your attention.  This awareness becomes a compass for every decision you make.

What to Expect
Each week brings a new module with video teachings, reflective prompts, live interactions, and guided practices.  You’ll engage in rituals that help you embody the qualities of each stage, from the curiosity of childhood to the vision of elderhood.  Group discussions offer a space to share insights and witness others’ transformations.

The Transformation
This isn’t just learning – it’s remembering.  You’ll leave with a living map of your life, one that honors where you’ve been, clarifies where you are, and illuminates where you’re going.  The cycles become allies, guiding you toward wholeness.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs for an entire season of thirteen consecutive weeks with one live, 90-minute class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

 

Transitions to Transformation

The Invitation
Life’s turning points can feel like storms – unpredictable, disorienting, and powerful.  Transitions to Transformation is your guide to navigating these moments with clarity, grace, and depth.  Instead of resisting change, you’ll learn to harness it as a force for growth.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’re in the midst of a career shift, relationship change, relocation, or personal awakening, you know how destabilizing transitions can be.  This course is for those who want to meet change with open eyes and a steady heart, transforming uncertainty into opportunity.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll develop a personal toolkit for navigating transitions – from recognizing the early signs of change to integrating the lessons they bring.  You’ll learn to release what no longer serves you, honor the space in-between, and step into new beginnings with confidence.

What to Expect
Through live interactions, guided meditations, journaling exercises, and practical tools you’ll explore the anatomy of transition.  You’ll map your own turning points, identify patterns, and practice rituals that help you move through change with intention.  Live Q&A sessions offer real-time support and insight.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll no longer see transitions as disruptions, but as thresholds – sacred gateways into the next chapter of your life.  You’ll carry the skills to meet future changes with resilience and trust.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Strengthen into Stability

The Invitation
In a world that moves fast and demands more, stability can feel like a luxury.  Strengthen into Stability is your invitation to slow down, root deeply, and build the resilience you need to thrive in your current life cycle.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been feeling unsteady – emotionally, mentally, or physically – this course offers the grounding you’ve been seeking.  It’s for anyone who wants to stop reacting to life’s chaos and start responding from a place of strength.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn practical, body-based practices to restore balance, along with mindset tools to keep you steady when challenges arise.  You’ll create a personalized stability plan that supports your unique needs and rhythms.

What to Expect
Each module combines short, accessible practices with deeper teachings on resilience.  You’ll explore breathwork, grounding rituals, and daily habits that anchor you in the present.  Reflection prompts help you track your progress and notice subtle shifts.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll feel more rooted, calm, and capable – no matter what life throws your way.  Stability will no longer be something you chase; it will be something you carry within you.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Ritual in Everyday Life

The Invitation
Life is made of moments – but too often, we rush through them.  Ritual in Everyday Life teaches you to slow down, infuse intention into your routines, and transform the ordinary into the sacred.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been craving more meaning in your daily life, this course is your answer.  It’s for those who want to feel connected, present, and purposeful – not just during big milestones, but in the quiet moments in between.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn simple, powerful rituals to mark time, honor transitions, and cultivate presence.  These practices will help you reconnect with yourself, your loved ones, and the world around you.

What to Expect
Through video lessons, printable guides, live discussions, and community interactions, you’ll explore rituals for morning, evening, work, relationships, and self-care.  You’ll experiment with micro-ceremonies that fit seamlessly into your life.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll see your days differently.  Every sip of tea, every walk outside, every pause will become an opportunity to connect with the sacred.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.