Becoming Self

Rachael Skolnik Bonaiuto

Rachael Skolnik Bonaiuto is the founder of Embodied Wellness, a somatic psychotherapist, board-certified dance/movement therapist, and licensed professional counselor whose work centers on embodied presence, grounded awareness, and compassionate empowerment.  She helps individuals, couples, families, and groups develop healthier relationships, clearer decision-making, and durable patterns of well-being by integrating body, mind, and spirit into practical therapeutic and educational offerings.

Research & Theoretical Work

Rachael’s approach is deeply eclectic and evidence-informed, drawing from somatic counseling psychology, Dance/Movement Therapy, Authentic movement and mystical studies, Jungian theory, humanistic psychology and cognitive-behavioral frameworks.  Her training includes an MA in Somatic Counseling Psychology from Naropa University, certification as a BC-DMT, and continuing study in Authentic Movement, Buddhist meditation, and trauma-aware modalities.  She synthesizes these lineages to match interventions precisely to client needs and developmental context.

Approach and Practice

Rachael practices with honesty, curiosity, and warmth, offering interventions that cultivate somatic awareness, self-authoring capacity, and relational attunement.  Core methods include dance/movement therapy, embodied psychotherapeutic techniques, client-centered approaches, and experiential practices such as Authentic Movement and Akashic Records Consultation.  She emphasizes process over prescription, helping clients reclaim bodily authority, translate insight into action, and build sustainable wellness through creative, embodied practices.

Personal Journey and Leadership

Embodied Wellness emerged from Rachael’s long personal and professional journey of healing, resilience, and reclamation of bodily agency after illness and encounters with fragmented systems and institutions.  Over two decades in the mental health field – including community development, Peace Corps service, life-skills training, and international teaching – Rachael cultivated an authentic presence that blends intuitive responsiveness with clinical rigor.  She models the trust in inner knowing that she invites in others.

Programs and Community

Since founding Embodied Wellness in 2008, Rachael has designed and led individual therapy, family and couples work, group therapy, workshops, and movement-based community offerings.  She teaches Authentic Movement, facilitates ecstatic dance events, and leads educational programs locally and abroad.  Her services include clinical consultation, classes, retreats, and collaborative projects that foster self-love, creative expression, and functional change across career, health, relationships, and creative practice.

Guides, Mentors and Elders

Rachael is an active member of the Golden Bridge SomaSource Leadership Team and a learner in the Circles of Four postgraduate program for teachers of Authentic Movement.  She has studied with meditation teachers internationally and engaged in extensive study of Authentic Movement around the world. Trained through Levels I-IV in the Akashic Records, she has been guided by many teachers along the way, deepening her exploration of Somatics, Presence and Therapeutic Support, as well as Mysticism, Embodiment and Intuition.  Her formation is shaped by mentors in dance/movement therapy, somatic practice, and rites-of-passage work, and by the countless participants who have been both teachers and co-creators in her long-standing groups.

Life and Commitment

Rooted in Boulder, Colorado, Rachael devotes her days to tending individual clients, guiding Authentic Movement groups, and nurturing a living practice of embodiment within her community – all while raising two bright and active children.  She meets each person with presence, kindness, truth, and practical care, honoring the innate intelligence that lives within every body.  Embodied Wellness is her vessel for restoring agency, deepening connection, and cultivating embodied wellbeing through creative, relational, and evidence-informed pathways.  She welcomes collaboration and heartfelt inquiry into what it means to live in harmony with oneself, others, and the greater unfolding of life.

Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations

The Invitation
Every life has a rhythm, a hidden architecture that shapes the way we grow, change, and become. You’ve felt it before – the sense that certain moments arrive right on time, while others feel like they’re pulling you forward before you’re ready. Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations is your key to understanding these patterns. It’s not just theory; it’s a living map of your own unfolding.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever wondered why certain challenges keep repeating, or why some seasons of life feel effortless while others feel like uphill climbs, this course will give you the clarity you’ve been craving. You’ll learn to see your life not as a series of random events, but as a purposeful sequence – one that you can navigate with awareness instead of guesswork.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of this course, you’ll have a clear framework for recognizing where you are in your current cycle, what’s coming next, and how to prepare for it. You’ll be able to identify the signs of transition before they arrive, make decisions with greater confidence, and align your actions with the natural flow of your development.

What to Expect
Over several modules, you’ll explore the stages of the life cycle through engaging video lessons, live interactions, reflective exercises, and guided Life Cycle Sequencing activities. You’ll work with real examples from your own life, uncovering patterns you may never have noticed before. You’ll also have access to a supportive online community where you can share insights, learn from others walking their own paths, and find allies on the journey.

The Transformation
This isn’t just about learning a model – it’s about reclaiming your agency. When you understand the timing and structure of your own growth, you stop fighting the current and start moving with it. You’ll leave with a sense of grounded confidence, knowing that you have the tools to meet whatever comes next.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks

The Invitation
Imagine walking through every cycle of human becoming – not as an abstract idea, but as a lived, embodied experience.  Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks is a guided journey through the full arc of development, from the first breath to the wisdom of elderhood.  Each week, you’ll immerse yourself in a new cycle, exploring its gifts, challenges, and lessons.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever felt like you’re living one chapter while still carrying the weight of another, or if you sense that understanding the whole story of human development could unlock your own growth, this course is for you.  It’s for seekers who want to see the bigger picture and your place within it.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of these thirteen weeks, you’ll have a deep, embodied understanding of each life cycle and how they weave together.  You’ll see your own journey with fresh eyes, recognize the cycles you’ve mastered, and identify the ones still calling for your attention.  This awareness becomes a compass for every decision you make.

What to Expect
Each week brings a new module with video teachings, reflective prompts, live interactions, and guided practices.  You’ll engage in rituals that help you embody the qualities of each stage, from the curiosity of childhood to the vision of elderhood.  Group discussions offer a space to share insights and witness others’ transformations.

The Transformation
This isn’t just learning – it’s remembering.  You’ll leave with a living map of your life, one that honors where you’ve been, clarifies where you are, and illuminates where you’re going.  The cycles become allies, guiding you toward wholeness.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs for an entire season of thirteen consecutive weeks with one live, 90-minute class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

 

Transitions to Transformation

The Invitation
Life’s turning points can feel like storms – unpredictable, disorienting, and powerful.  Transitions to Transformation is your guide to navigating these moments with clarity, grace, and depth.  Instead of resisting change, you’ll learn to harness it as a force for growth.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’re in the midst of a career shift, relationship change, relocation, or personal awakening, you know how destabilizing transitions can be.  This course is for those who want to meet change with open eyes and a steady heart, transforming uncertainty into opportunity.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll develop a personal toolkit for navigating transitions – from recognizing the early signs of change to integrating the lessons they bring.  You’ll learn to release what no longer serves you, honor the space in-between, and step into new beginnings with confidence.

What to Expect
Through live interactions, guided meditations, journaling exercises, and practical tools you’ll explore the anatomy of transition.  You’ll map your own turning points, identify patterns, and practice rituals that help you move through change with intention.  Live Q&A sessions offer real-time support and insight.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll no longer see transitions as disruptions, but as thresholds – sacred gateways into the next chapter of your life.  You’ll carry the skills to meet future changes with resilience and trust.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Strengthen into Stability

The Invitation
In a world that moves fast and demands more, stability can feel like a luxury.  Strengthen into Stability is your invitation to slow down, root deeply, and build the resilience you need to thrive in your current life cycle.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been feeling unsteady – emotionally, mentally, or physically – this course offers the grounding you’ve been seeking.  It’s for anyone who wants to stop reacting to life’s chaos and start responding from a place of strength.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn practical, body-based practices to restore balance, along with mindset tools to keep you steady when challenges arise.  You’ll create a personalized stability plan that supports your unique needs and rhythms.

What to Expect
Each module combines short, accessible practices with deeper teachings on resilience.  You’ll explore breathwork, grounding rituals, and daily habits that anchor you in the present.  Reflection prompts help you track your progress and notice subtle shifts.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll feel more rooted, calm, and capable – no matter what life throws your way.  Stability will no longer be something you chase; it will be something you carry within you.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Ritual in Everyday Life

The Invitation
Life is made of moments – but too often, we rush through them.  Ritual in Everyday Life teaches you to slow down, infuse intention into your routines, and transform the ordinary into the sacred.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been craving more meaning in your daily life, this course is your answer.  It’s for those who want to feel connected, present, and purposeful – not just during big milestones, but in the quiet moments in between.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn simple, powerful rituals to mark time, honor transitions, and cultivate presence.  These practices will help you reconnect with yourself, your loved ones, and the world around you.

What to Expect
Through video lessons, printable guides, live discussions, and community interactions, you’ll explore rituals for morning, evening, work, relationships, and self-care.  You’ll experiment with micro-ceremonies that fit seamlessly into your life.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll see your days differently.  Every sip of tea, every walk outside, every pause will become an opportunity to connect with the sacred.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.