Becoming Self

Kathryn Holt

Kathryn Holt, PhD, LCSW is a psychotherapist, teacher, and writer whose work centers on helping people live in their bodies respectfully.  Trained in depth psychology and clinical social work, she specializes in supporting adults – especially mothers and caregivers – navigate life transitions and grow through periods of incredible stress.  Her practice integrates feminist, behavioral, and depth psychologies to cultivate soulful, embodied pathways to wellbeing.

Research & Theoretical Work

Kathryn’s doctoral research focused on how cisgendered women move through the journey from body discontent/body hatred to relative body peace.  Her research was grounded in depth and feminist psychologies, yet her interpretations were also informed by her behavioral background in clinical social work from Columbia University.  Her theoretical work draws from her experience in feminist psychoanalysis she was involved with in New York City as well as more body-based modalities like Gestalt psychotherapy.  She pulled all of these threads together to weave her most recent book together, the Overcoming Body Hatred Workbook, published with New Harbinger Publications.  Her previous co-authored book was focused on DBT, entitled, The Stronger than BPD Guided Journal, was written to support people who are emotionally sensitive.

Approach and Practice

Her clinical work is rooted in depth (Jungian/Archetypal) and behavioral psychologies, attachment and regulation science, psychodynamic and psychoanalytic work, as well as contemporary feminist theory.  Her doctoral and master’s training at Pacifica Graduate Institute is balanced with clinical social work credentials from Columbia University and specialized trainings in DBT/RO DBT, TF-CBT, ARC, Gestalt, Qoya Inspired Movement, and somatic trauma work.  This eclectic, evidence‑informed base allows her to tailor interventions that honor mythic meaning, developmental sequencing, and practical skill building. 

She uses long‑form psychodynamic work alongside practical skills-based interventions.  Her style is direct, compassionate, and developmentally attuned, supporting clients to reclaim bodily authority, develop emotional literacy, and translate insight into sustainable change. 

Personal Journey and Leadership

Kathryn’s clinical sensibility is informed by a personal trajectory through disconnection, illness, and motherhood.  Growing up in the American South amid pressures of appearance and performance shaped her early coping and later vocational calling.  The challenges of new motherhood during the pandemic reframed her work, deepening her commitment to accompanying caregivers through the dissolution of transformation.  She teaches and practices from lived recovery, honesty, and earned empathy.

Programs and Community

Kathryn offers individual psychotherapy, clinical consultation, and workshops that integrate movement, ritual, and regulation.  She has been a long-time teacher at DBT Path, the longest-running online DBT class.  Kathryn is also a frequent contributor and visiting teacher to community programs that invite her to teach on her research on the spiritual journey from body hatred to body peace.

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Guides, Mentors and Elders

Kathryn was fortunate to have many guides and elders in her clinical development.  Specifically, faculty at the Women’s Therapy Center Institute in New York, her dissertation committee, and Qoya Inspired Movement communities. Anita Johnston, the author of Eating in the Light of the Moon, helped guide her research and wrote the foreword to her book on body hatred.  Marion Woodman, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, and James Hillman offer a foundation for archetypally informed clinical work from afar.  She is also regularly inspired and supported by friends and colleagues who are engaged in their own creative work.

Life and Commitment

Kathryn is a mother, wife, therapist, and seeker who is passionate about ongoing learning.  She is committed to providing clinically rigorous work for her community.  She believes in radical openness – knowing we cannot fully know ourselves without the help of others – and it is the work of our lifetimes to live into our vocational callings.

Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations

The Invitation
Every life has a rhythm, a hidden architecture that shapes the way we grow, change, and become. You’ve felt it before – the sense that certain moments arrive right on time, while others feel like they’re pulling you forward before you’re ready. Life Cycle Sequencing: Foundations is your key to understanding these patterns. It’s not just theory; it’s a living map of your own unfolding.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever wondered why certain challenges keep repeating, or why some seasons of life feel effortless while others feel like uphill climbs, this course will give you the clarity you’ve been craving. You’ll learn to see your life not as a series of random events, but as a purposeful sequence – one that you can navigate with awareness instead of guesswork.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of this course, you’ll have a clear framework for recognizing where you are in your current cycle, what’s coming next, and how to prepare for it. You’ll be able to identify the signs of transition before they arrive, make decisions with greater confidence, and align your actions with the natural flow of your development.

What to Expect
Over several modules, you’ll explore the stages of the life cycle through engaging video lessons, live interactions, reflective exercises, and guided Life Cycle Sequencing activities. You’ll work with real examples from your own life, uncovering patterns you may never have noticed before. You’ll also have access to a supportive online community where you can share insights, learn from others walking their own paths, and find allies on the journey.

The Transformation
This isn’t just about learning a model – it’s about reclaiming your agency. When you understand the timing and structure of your own growth, you stop fighting the current and start moving with it. You’ll leave with a sense of grounded confidence, knowing that you have the tools to meet whatever comes next.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks

The Invitation
Imagine walking through every cycle of human becoming – not as an abstract idea, but as a lived, embodied experience.  Life Stance: 13 Life Cycles in 13 Weeks is a guided journey through the full arc of development, from the first breath to the wisdom of elderhood.  Each week, you’ll immerse yourself in a new cycle, exploring its gifts, challenges, and lessons.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve ever felt like you’re living one chapter while still carrying the weight of another, or if you sense that understanding the whole story of human development could unlock your own growth, this course is for you.  It’s for seekers who want to see the bigger picture and your place within it.

What You’ll Gain
By the end of these thirteen weeks, you’ll have a deep, embodied understanding of each life cycle and how they weave together.  You’ll see your own journey with fresh eyes, recognize the cycles you’ve mastered, and identify the ones still calling for your attention.  This awareness becomes a compass for every decision you make.

What to Expect
Each week brings a new module with video teachings, reflective prompts, live interactions, and guided practices.  You’ll engage in rituals that help you embody the qualities of each stage, from the curiosity of childhood to the vision of elderhood.  Group discussions offer a space to share insights and witness others’ transformations.

The Transformation
This isn’t just learning – it’s remembering.  You’ll leave with a living map of your life, one that honors where you’ve been, clarifies where you are, and illuminates where you’re going.  The cycles become allies, guiding you toward wholeness.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs for an entire season of thirteen consecutive weeks with one live, 90-minute class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

 

Transitions to Transformation

The Invitation
Life’s turning points can feel like storms – unpredictable, disorienting, and powerful.  Transitions to Transformation is your guide to navigating these moments with clarity, grace, and depth.  Instead of resisting change, you’ll learn to harness it as a force for growth.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’re in the midst of a career shift, relationship change, relocation, or personal awakening, you know how destabilizing transitions can be.  This course is for those who want to meet change with open eyes and a steady heart, transforming uncertainty into opportunity.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll develop a personal toolkit for navigating transitions – from recognizing the early signs of change to integrating the lessons they bring.  You’ll learn to release what no longer serves you, honor the space in-between, and step into new beginnings with confidence.

What to Expect
Through live interactions, guided meditations, journaling exercises, and practical tools you’ll explore the anatomy of transition.  You’ll map your own turning points, identify patterns, and practice rituals that help you move through change with intention.  Live Q&A sessions offer real-time support and insight.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll no longer see transitions as disruptions, but as thresholds – sacred gateways into the next chapter of your life.  You’ll carry the skills to meet future changes with resilience and trust.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Strengthen into Stability

The Invitation
In a world that moves fast and demands more, stability can feel like a luxury.  Strengthen into Stability is your invitation to slow down, root deeply, and build the resilience you need to thrive in your current life cycle.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been feeling unsteady – emotionally, mentally, or physically – this course offers the grounding you’ve been seeking.  It’s for anyone who wants to stop reacting to life’s chaos and start responding from a place of strength.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn practical, body-based practices to restore balance, along with mindset tools to keep you steady when challenges arise.  You’ll create a personalized stability plan that supports your unique needs and rhythms.

What to Expect
Each module combines short, accessible practices with deeper teachings on resilience.  You’ll explore breathwork, grounding rituals, and daily habits that anchor you in the present.  Reflection prompts help you track your progress and notice subtle shifts.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll feel more rooted, calm, and capable – no matter what life throws your way.  Stability will no longer be something you chase; it will be something you carry within you.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.

Ritual in Everyday Life

The Invitation
Life is made of moments – but too often, we rush through them.  Ritual in Everyday Life teaches you to slow down, infuse intention into your routines, and transform the ordinary into the sacred.

Why You’re Called Here
If you’ve been craving more meaning in your daily life, this course is your answer.  It’s for those who want to feel connected, present, and purposeful – not just during big milestones, but in the quiet moments in between.

What You’ll Gain
You’ll learn simple, powerful rituals to mark time, honor transitions, and cultivate presence.  These practices will help you reconnect with yourself, your loved ones, and the world around you.

What to Expect
Through video lessons, printable guides, live discussions, and community interactions, you’ll explore rituals for morning, evening, work, relationships, and self-care.  You’ll experiment with micro-ceremonies that fit seamlessly into your life.

The Transformation
By the end, you’ll see your days differently.  Every sip of tea, every walk outside, every pause will become an opportunity to connect with the sacred.

Timing & Commitment
This course runs four consecutive weeks with one live, two‑hour class each week.  Between sessions you’ll engage with focused coursework – short readings, reflective exercises, and practical experientials – designed to deepen learning and integrate discoveries into your life.  Expect an engaging, rigorous experience that asks for steady participation: plan on the two‑hour live class plus roughly 2 – 4 hours per week of preparatory and integration work.  Live sessions are interactive and practice‑focused; recordings and resources are provided for catch‑up, but full benefit comes from attending and participating in real time.